Only send out device list updates for our own users

Broke in #12365

Author: erikjohnston

synapse/handlers/device.py

@@ -649,9 +649,13 @@ async def _handle_new_device_update_async(self) -> None:
                         return
 
                 for user_id, device_id, room_id, stream_id, opentracing_context in rows:
-                    joined_user_ids = await self.store.get_users_in_room(room_id)
-                    hosts = {get_domain_from_id(u) for u in joined_user_ids}
-                    hosts.discard(self.server_name)
+                    hosts = set()
+
+                    # Ignore any users that aren't ours
+                    if self.hs.is_mine_id(user_id):
+                        joined_user_ids = await self.store.get_users_in_room(room_id)
+                        hosts = {get_domain_from_id(u) for u in joined_user_ids}
+                        hosts.discard(self.server_name)
 
                     # Check if we've already sent this update to some hosts
                     if current_stream_id == stream_id:

synapse/storage/databases/main/devices.py

@@ -1703,7 +1703,9 @@ def _add_device_outbound_poke_to_stream_txn(
                     next(stream_id_iterator),
                     user_id,
                     device_id,
-                    False,
+                    not self.hs.is_mine_id(
+                        user_id
+                    ),  # We only need to send out update for *our* users
                     now,
                     encoded_context if whitelisted_homeserver(destination) else "{}",
                 )