feat: track async validation delay from first seen

[twoeths]

Motivation
We want to know how long does it take to validate a message with async validation

Description

• Use firstSeen field in MessageDeliveries
• Add new metrics:
  • asyncValidationDelayFromFirstSeenSec
  • asyncValidationUnknownFirstSeen

[codecov-commenter]

Codecov Report

Patch coverage: 18.96% and project coverage change: -0.19 ⚠️

Comparison is base (acf304f) 82.70% compared to head (dc16c5a) 82.52%.

Additional details and impacted files

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- Coverage   82.70%   82.52%   -0.19%     
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  Files          48       48              
  Lines       11931    11968      +37     
  Branches     1278     1279       +1     
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+ Hits         9867     9876       +9     
- Misses       2064     2092      +28     

Impacted Files	Coverage Δ
src/metrics.ts	19.05% <0.00%> (-0.62%)	⬇️
src/index.ts	70.10% <12.50%> (+0.10%)	⬆️
src/score/peer-score.ts	85.53% <28.57%> (-0.42%)	⬇️
src/score/message-deliveries.ts	97.89% <66.66%> (-2.11%)	⬇️
src/message-cache.ts	78.06% <100.00%> (+0.22%)	⬆️

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