[Blockstore] VolumeInfo not updated in ServiceActor for remote volumes

[qkrorlqr]

We hit the following error https://github.com/ydb-platform/nbs/blame/3f335a8812dd778e1f1fa907bd1e9e05e6f6a5ee/cloud/blockstore/libs/storage/service/service_actor_writeblocks.cpp#L67 on the host where the volume is mounted if TResizeVolumeRequest is processed by another blockstore-server instance.

First of all, this validation at the TServiceActor side seems redundant. Second, we still want to keep VolumeInfo structures in TServiceActor up to date and we have the logic that updates the endpoint upon resize - we should also update VolumeInfo structures in service state.